He is funny, young, caring and great in bed… Boys in their mid-20s have their own charm
Boys when reach the age of mid-20s or late 20s are quite groovy and fun to hang around. Maturing to become a man, it can be overwhelming for some women to be around them and form relationships. Love is beyond the barriers of age, distance, caste, etc, thus having a relationship with a man who is younger to your age doesn’t matter.
The society might talk a bit, but don’t forget this society says that men should marry women younger to their age! In this 21st century, who cares when you are in love? But ladies, here are few things to keep in mind while dating a man younger to your age, as you may not want to land up in Saif Ali Khan – Amrita Singh types (with all due to respects to the great human beings they are).
What kind of relationship do you want?
Being in 20s, boys don’t generally don’t think of a serious relationship, thus they might not be ready to commit. This attitude is very annoying, not because you are older but at this age, they want to settle with job or business and have fun. So, check one for you lovely ladies is to find out what kind of relationship would you like to have with this young man? Serious or fun?
Match points – common interests
Feeling young with your mate while you party, club hop, drink till you drop and late nights? Think again, what are the match points for a long-term relationship, if that is what you are thinking about. Make a quick list of match points where you both have common interests in things you guys like to do and relationship.
Perspective on Life
He is young, passionate, fun and serious about life and you think he is a man already. But ladies, men do not grow easily. As his continues to pass his 20s and finds life more interesting, his interests and priorities change, along with his attitude in life. Thus asking him about perspective of life-like faith, how he wants to be and do, what kind of life he wants, etc. Having differences are good, but a common goal is very important for a successful relationship. A check on initial stage would help you shape you up your thought son the kind of relation you may want to form with this young lad!
Your experience counts
Always remember when you are dating a younger men, your experience counts. You are more mature & better in bed 😉 You know exactly what you want from life, you are very much focused than your man.So, be confident and there is nothing to hide.There is no reason why women can’t have younger boyfriends.
Age doesn’t matter
People might say it won’t work out for you, but don’t pay attention to them. You know what’s right for you, so believe yourself.Having a younger boyfriend will also keep you young. Go out for holidays,parties, socialize with friends, and this will surely rejuvenate you 🙂
Madhurima is an amazing girl and feature writer from Delhi. To pep up her day, all she needs is a mug of black coffee, countryside music and a good read. If she is not in office you will find her shopping for magazines, browsing through books, exploring gastronomy at new outlets, or engaged in dialogues on how to live a happy life