Have you ever thought what it’s like to get married to a NRI, would you ever get married to a NRI, what all you would do if you get a prospective “Rishtah” from a person who hasn’t stayed in the same country as you? Of course I wouldn’t mind getting hitched to a Non Resident Indian and to tell you the truth I have thought so much about it and what all I would do to find out if the person is genuine.
Here I will be sharing with you all the things I think are supposed to be taken care of before taking the final decision to choose your life partner who is a NRI.
In this expensive time I believe Skype is a God sent gift for each and every person who’s someone is far away from them. Find a way and talk to this special someone on Skype and don’t rush it.
Make sure you go through all the different social media profiles one can ever have. I am a complete SM stalker and wouldn’t even skip googling the person’s name. Take a little pain and find out whatever you can, don’t believe in verbal promises and what you have heard. Go figure yourself!
Social Media and Skype are just a way to get a whiff to the actual fragrance. It’s the most important part in any relationship to meet in person. It helps you to get to know the unadulterated version of his personality.
Time is the key
This is one factor that can make or break a relationship “TIME”, make it a point that you give it a lot of quality time. It just helps you decide better and the icing on the cake is the fact that you get a chance to know more. And be with each other more.
Don’t take the medical test lightly, it’s of utter importance to get yourself and your man tested for any unfortunate infections etc. It doesn’t harm anyone but it will just build your trust for each other.
Family Background & Lifestyle
Go the old fashioned way and gather all the family information. It will help you know the family you will be living with and the lifestyle he is born and brought up in.
I hope each one of you gals reading this will follow. Trust me you will actually find out a lot and it’s not like we don’t have the means. These cautious steps will be very helpful to find a genuine person and not spoil your life because of one wrong decision.
Lalana suvarna is a commerce professional, her interests include reading, eating and writing.