The quest to find the perfect match is always on, the quest to find the perfect boyfriend i meant. It’s hard, its tiresome and it takes a lot of patience and time to reach the goal but only a few handful might succeed. Here are some helpful tips on how to attract the guy you like.
1. Dress up smart
if you want your fish to fall into the trap. This is that basic step towards making a smart move before directly approaching someone you really want to take steps ahead. Work on how to be more attractive, dress up so that you can make a guy stare at you. Dress up in the right way, mix your outfits so that it compliments your looks. Improve and master your conversation skills. Boost up your confidence and learn to approach guys with ease.
2. Don’t get confused
Don’t get confused or don’t mix up different option altogether. Have a very clear idea in your head as to the kind of guy you want to date. Once you are clear, you will be able to select better.
3. Places to find perfect match
Just to make you understand it better lets elaborate it. Suppose you like a music fanatic then obviously you won’t find him at the hospital, rather try finding him out at the a rock show or maybe some music school, etc. Jot down the places where you can find out your perfect match. Let your close friends in on what you’re looking for and they might set you up with someone they think fits the bill.
4. Consult close frinds
It might actually be a very good step because you might land up knowing someone who would actually appreciate your taste because you have some friends in common. Your common friends will know what kind of a guy will fit your bill. So its always a one step ahead than approaching someone unknown.
5 Socializing is important
Socialise with people. Attend social gatherings and make new contacts. Sometimes spending some time with someone on the social networks might land you up making a very good relation. Meet up somewhere, ask him out and if you really like him pop the question. You never know whats in store for you.
Backing out or feeling shy at the last moment will do you no good. So be bold and ask him out for a date. The key to finding someone apt for you is knowing what you want and not backing out when you think you have found that someone. You never know when you will get lucky.
Smita Diwan a Television Journalist and Communication Specialist with an experience of 10 years in media and leading satellite channels started whatshelikes.in as a digital hub for women in India. Smita specialises in Lifestyle, Home Decor, Health, Food and Product reviews. When she is not working,she is researching or practising yoga! @SmitaDiwan